Friday, February 17, 2012

Add a Little Swagger: Dressing the Groom(s)



Last week we focused on dressing the bride, so this week I wanted to pay special attention to our grooms out there. Since the wedding usually revolves around the bride, we sometimes forget to focus on the groom, or grooms in our modern day weddings involving gay couples. There is a lot to focus on by way of styling the groom for his big day, and there are many ways to add some swagger, and pops of color to a groom’s wedding day outfit. For this reason, I put together a small guide covering a few of the ways to add a unique touch to a groom’s outfit. Because he's just as important as the bride. Check out these tips and show up at your wedding with style.





Ditch the Tux – Yes it’s true, a tux is very formal and classic, but we’ve seen it over and over again. Be a trendsetter and opt for a beautifully cut suit, go with pin stripes or an unconventional color, you’ll be the talk of your wedding.



Get Styling with Your Tie – Ties are all the rage these days. They are being made by all the top designers and in really eye catching colors and prints. Choose one that matches your style or wedding décor and tie it on.



Be Different with Your Socks – We’ve all taken notice of those really cool pictures of funky socks at weddings, now you can have your very own. Choose a bold color or an argyle print and knock your socks off.



Go With Funky Shoes – Another way for grooms to add some swagger, opt for ditching the normal black formal shoes and go with wing tips, colored converse or maybe even oxfords.



Show Off Your Culture – Be proud of your heritage and decide to dress traditionally. If you’re Scottish wear your traditional kilt or find a way to incorporate some cultural color into the mix. Connecting culture with your wedding theme adds a lot of character to the wedding.




ONLY A FEW MORE DAY TO ENTER OUR INSPIRE ME BRIDE CONTEST GIVEAWAY




Time is running out to get your submission. The contest is only open until February 23, 2012. There is still time, but you must hurry. Check out our contest blog for details. Winner announed on February 25, 2012. Big prizes are at stake, don't miss out!!

Tuesday, February 14, 2012

Love is in the Air



Happy Valentine’s Day! Today we profess our love to all our secret crushes. We figure out new and creative ways to tell our sweet heart we love them. Cupid’s arrows fly around finding innocent hearts to embed themselves in and the innocent go around floating on cloud nine. Sometimes it is true that all you need is love. When the tough gets going and life gets rough is when we especially see that nothing in the material world matters without love. Today I want to profess my love for all things romantic and for Valentine’s Day, so I bring you images of love and décor inspired by Valentine’s Day marriages and proposals. Perhaps you are planning to wed next year in a Valentine’s Day inspired ceremony, or have a Valentine’s Day engagement party or bridal shower. Or maybe just for all of those in love with love, I leave you with these beautiful and inspiring images that will help you welcome a little bit more love into your life. Have a safe and Happy Valentine’s Day everyone!
















HAVE YOU SUBMITTED YOUR ENTRY FOR OUR AMAZING CONTEST GIVEAWAY?


A Monique Affair is starting off the year by partnering up with Adeline & Grace Photography to bring you the contest of the year. The Inspire Me Bride contest giveaway is now underway and accepting submission. Show us what wedding elements inspire you and enter for a chance to win a $100 gift card, and a chance for your wedding inspirations to be the subject of one of our styled shoots. Better hurry, cause time is running out. For full details, read our contest blog post.

Friday, February 10, 2012

Dressing the Bride




     As a wedding planner, I have a collection of special moments I carry near and dear to my heart. Being a part of a couple’s wedding is really special, so much so, I sometimes feel like Cinderella’s fairy god mother. I help the bride make it happen and assist her every step of the way. I often recount the story of one particular bride who I loved so much because she was daring. Daring enough to go against the grain, that she requested a red wedding dress. I took to the hunt, searched far and near, and in the end granted her this ultimate wedding wish. With that sentiment in mind I thought it would be fun to post an inspiration blog showcasing beautiful wedding dresses. Some may not realize how important the dress really is. Not only does it have a hand in making the bride feel phenomenal, but in an unconventional sense, the wedding dress is also on display, and even showcases as part the celebration's décor. It is a facet of the bride’s creativity and personality. It’s the wow factor and the element that makes the bride the talk of the town. Below is a collection of wedding dress images. Trends and  the direction  in which they are going in the upcoming season. Remember what we always say, stay true to your personality and do what you love!



















INSPIRE ME BRIDE CONTEST GIVEAWAY




A Monique Affair is starting off the year by partnering up with Adeline & Grace Photography to bring you the contest of the year. The Inspire Me Bride contest giveaway is now underway and accepting submission. Show us what wedding elements inspire you and enter for a chance to win a $100 gift card, and a chance for your wedding inspirations to be the subject of one of our styled shoots. Better hurry, cause time is running out. For full details, read our contest blog post.

Wednesday, February 8, 2012

Flower & Gold…And Everything Nice



For a bride-to-be, there is no day more important than the day of her wedding. There is no bigger moment then when she steps into the aisle and begins her walk toward the alter. Every detail must be perfect, as the audience anticipates her BIG reveal. It comes down to the smallest details that contribute to a bride feeling her most beautiful. With that in mind, I had the pleasure of catching up with awesome wedding professionals Flower & Gold, who know exactly what goes into making a bride feel her most glamorous.  Native to San Francisco, Alexia Ogle and Ashley Smith run a highly successful boutique wedding hair and make-up business which has attracted attention from big time names like L’Oreal, Bumble & Bumble, and Shu Uemera, to name a few. I had the courtesy and pleasure of catching up with Flower & Gold to bring you the very best in tips from these high fashion, artistic pros. Here A Monique Affair brings you an interview in which they discuss their greatest beauty secrets. If we’ve piqued your interest and you want to learn more about this dynamic duo, visit the Flower& Gold website.


ASHLEY SMITH on Wedding Hair…
AMA:   Hair Piece or Veil? What is your favorite to work with? Any tips to brides on how to choose between the two?
AS:   I am a huge fan of incorporating hair pieces and/or veils. The key is to make sure the look isn't overdone. For example, if the look is soft with loose curls, I would suggest a small vintage comb or fresh flowers to maintain a soft feel. If the hairstyle is more formal and structured, a low set veil would be perfect, so as not to disrupt the hairstyle. Each bride is different so it's really about making sure the entire look is completely cohesive!
AMA:  What is your most favorite, current wedding hair trend?
AS:   I am absolutely in love with braids right now, especially because of all the different types out there to choose from and play with. I feel they are great for capturing a lovely bohemian look, as well as, creating great visual points for a photographer to feature and/or capture.
AMA:   Any tips a bride should follow for good hair treatment in the days leading up to the wedding?
AS:   Give the hair a great deep treatment! I recommend the Mending Masque from Bumble and Bumble. I will often also suggest a color gloss or toner to amplify the shine and color of the natural hair.
AMA:   What factors should a bride consider when deciding whether to go with an up-do, or a hair down style?
AS:   First thing to consider is your level of comfort. You want to make sure as a bride, you still feel like yourself. This means that if you never wear your hair up, I may recommend trying a glamorous down style. Also, it is important to take into consideration the cut of the wedding dress and whether there are features you are looking to show off by doing the hair up or off to the side.
AMA:    What is it about your hair expertise that you think sets you apart from other stylists?
AS:   I feel I am able to truly offer a completely customized experience. My passion for the experience coupled with a robust skill set makes each experience a special one.
AMA:   What attracted you to the bridal industry?
AS:   It is definitely my passion for making women feel beautiful and special in such a personal way. I also feel driven by my love for the art of hairstyling.


ALEXIA OGLE on wedding make-up…
AMA:   What is your favorite wedding make-up palette?
AO:   I wouldn’t say I have an exact favorite makeup palette, for me it is all about creating an individual palette for each woman.  I love enhancing natural beauty and personality, whether that means a smoky jewel toned eye or soft neutrals. It is about making any color palette work and look beautiful for my brides.
AMA:   When planning for her wedding day make-up, what factors do you think brides should keep in mind when deciding on their look?
AO:  There's nothing worse than having your big day come around, only for you to dislike the way your makeup looks. Remember that "A picture lasts a lifetime." Here are some makeup suggestions to consider before your wedding, whether you’re getting it done professionally or doing it yourself. I always ask, define your personal style, what are your favorite makeup colors, what time and where will the wedding be held. Think of hair styling, the style of the dress, accessories, and even color scheme. I believe your makeup should enhance your features to make you look and feel radiant! I also encourage brides not to forget to prep and prime the skin for a flawless, long lasting finish and using makeup products that are photo friendly.
AMA:   What's your favorite current wedding make-up trend?
AO:   I don't believe in following trends, makeup is a way to express your individuality. If a woman wants to wear a matte red lipstick on her special day, then by all means do it. The makeup should enhance the bride’s features and not drown them out to make her look and feel radiant.
AMA:   If a bride wants to keep it simple with make-up, are there still ways to play up the wow factor?
AO:   I always suggest a groomed brow and beautiful lashes, they are instant WOW factors. Eyebrows frame the face, and a groomed brow creates an instant pop for any makeup. When I do bridal makeup, I start with the brows before anything else. By transforming them, you can completely transform the face. If a bride wants a flawless application, I’d start with the eyes and finish with the skin. False lashes can be added to any look, and the confidence boost is palpable! Individual lashes look great with a naked eye and just a bit of mascara; there are tons of looks you can create using false eyelashes. At the end of the night they come right off until the next time you decide to use them. I highly recommend the FAUX brand false eye lashes (a San Francisco based company). They're an inexpensive way to achieve instant glamour and immediate gratification. A liquid highlighter around the orbital bone and a coat of water proof mascara is a bonus and you should always be prepared in case you shed a tear.   
AMA: What is it about your make-up expertise that sets you apart from other wedding artists?
AO:   I am constantly growing as an artist. It is important to stay updated with product knowledge and makeup skills. I love learning new tips and tricks to share with my bride. The biggest attribute my clients have shared, is that I listen to their needs and make them feel comfortable. They trust me in making them feel and look beautiful on one of their most significant days. When you love what you do that energy radiates. I am fortunate to have created relationships with my bridal clients and still work with many of them today.
AMA: What attracted you to the bridal industry?
AO:  It is a great honor to be a part of a woman’s most memorable day. I love when a bride looks in the mirror and says "I've never felt so beautiful", it brings a smile every single time.  Ashley and I have been fortunate to witness some magical moments between family and friends, as well as when the bride and groom see each other for the first time. Simply put, I love what I do and who wouldn't want to be a part of a fairy tale moment.



INSPIRE ME BRIDE CONTEST GIVEAWAY

A Monique Affair is starting off the year by partnering up with Adeline & Grace Photography to bring you the contest of the year. The Inspire Me Bride contest giveaway is now underway and accepting submission. Show us what wedding elements inspire you and enter for a chance to win a $100 gift card, and a chance for your wedding inspirations to be the subject of one of our styled shoots. Better hurry, cause time is running out. For full details, read our contest blog post.

Thursday, February 2, 2012

Wedding Etiquette 101



In modern times etiquette is a lost art. It’s important to remember that proper etiquette is less about you and more about being considerate of others. To help promote the comeback of proper manners, I thought AMA should post a little guide to wedding etiquette, to cover important tips that will keep you in your guests and wedding party’s good graces.
Always Keep a Record of Gifts You Receive
Use a planner, a check list, guest book to keep track of gifts, including senders, dates received, and whether or not you’ve sent a thank you note.

Thank Your Wedding Participants with Gifts
It’s traditional and in good form to thank your wedding party by getting them a gift to show your appreciation for their participation.  You should also give your new spouse a thoughtful gift and both sets of parents. Gifts like jewelry, pens or picture frames and always include a handwritten note expressing what they mean to you.

Make Thank You Note a Priority
Everyone loves to be acknowledged and thanked, so it’s really important to aim to send your thank-you’s within 3 months after the celebration. Make sure you include specific information of what the gift was and consider telling those that gave monetary gifts how you used them.

Include Those Who Cannot Attend
Important family members that can’t make it, or family that has previously passed, should definitely be acknowledged either in a special prayer during the reception, or include a few nice words about them in y our program.

Receive Your Guests and Make the Rounds
Let’s face it, guests come to your wedding to see and celebrate you. For this reason it’s very important to make the rounds during the reception and be sure to greet and thank everyone for coming. Remember, you could not have a successful party without the attendance of your guests so it’s important to always be grateful.



Quick Tips for Toasters
1.       Keep it brief and classy, you want to keep people attention not lose it.
2.       The best toasts include quick antidotes about the couple; keep it as a toast and not a roast.
3.       Make sure you recite your speech at least once before the reception.
4.       Avoid clinking silverware, instead keep say, “May I have your attention please.”
5.       Refrain from having too many glasses of champagne, you don’t want your speech slurred.


Tuesday, January 31, 2012

Encore Wedding Celebrations


We are all familiar with the terms “life is short,” and “you only live once.” While it is true that life is short, it is also possible to live many lives in one. It is for this reason that love brings us many obstacles and who we thought we were meant to be with, sometimes is really only a lesson to reach the next level. In a sense it is a way to prepare us for our real true loves. What immediately comes to mind, and provide a perfect example of what I’m talking about is that infamous Sex and the City episode in which Charlotte finally gets engaged to her true love, Harry, but because she had previously been married to Trey, she feels embarrassed to shout from the roof-tops about her newly engaged status. “I’ve already done the showing of the ring, and the big wedding.” She sadly explains to her girlfriends. In the end, her girlfriends convince her that she could celebrate in whatever way she wishes.
Today’s post is dedicated to the Charlottes of the world. A Monique Affair is here to tell you to go big your second time around. Shout about your love over the roof-tops and make your second wedding bigger than the first. A Monique Affair specializes in encore weddings, and we want to let you know that we are here to plan it with you every step of the way. There are many upsides to doing an Encore, for instance maybe your budget wasn’t up to par when you wed the first time. You can also highlight new facets of you and your true love’s personality. We are here to tell you that you can have the fairytale, dream wedding you’ve always wished for, the second time around. Go all out with your décor, make it a destination wedding or go for a do-it-yourself signature. If you’re interested in AMA’s encore wedding services, visit our website A Monique Affair for further booking details. Just remember what we always say, stay true to your couple’s personality and do what you love.








INSPIRE ME BRIDE CONTEST GIVEAWAY


A Monique Affair is starting off the year by partnering up with Adeline & Grace Photography to bring you the contest of the year. The Inspire Me Bride contest giveaway is now underway and accepting submission. Show us what wedding elements inspire you and enter for a chance to win a $100 gift card, and a chance for your wedding inspirations to be the subject of one of our styled shoots. Better hurry, cause time is running out. For full details, read our contest blog post.




Thursday, January 26, 2012

A Monique Affair Talks Make-Up with Diva Life



     The day of the wedding is a bride’s biggest moment. With the help of her maids and family, special care is taken to get her ready. After all, once all the party details are set, the true wow factor of the celebration is the moment in which the bride reveals herself. Part of looking amazing, is making sure you pick a good make-up artist. To help us elaborate on the make-up topic, we caught up with the fabulous Meteka Jackson of Diva Life Make-Up to give a few points and discuss the subject of wedding make-up. I hope you enjoy these tips, and if you like what you see and you’re interested in learning more about Diva Life Make-Up, you can contact them via email at Divalife1@yahoo.com.




AMA:  When planning for wedding day make-up, what do you tell your clients to keep in mind in the days leading up the wedding?
DL:  Planning a wedding, as we all know, is very stressful. In the days leading up to the wedding, I like to keep it simple. I encourage my clients to stay hydrated and to get plenty of rest especially because these two factors have the most effect on the skin.
AMA:  Do you normally offer make-up consultations with brides or do they usually just contract you for the day-of appointment?
DL:  I definitely offer consultation and actually recommend them. To have the best results, you should have a dress rehearsal with your make-up artist. It is so important after all to know exactly what the bride wants for her big day
AMA:  If a bride wanted to do one make-up look for the ceremony and a separate make-up application for her reception, how possible or realistic is that and have you had any brides request this in the past?
DL:  Yes, brides request it more often than you might think. It’s usually a softer more subtle look for the ceremony, and a sexier look for the evening reception. I sometimes like to sneak in a racy red lips for the reception. Having two looks is realistic and doable, plus I love giving the bride exactly what she wants.
AMA:  Can you offer any guidelines for our readers in terms of how they should go about planning their wedding make-up?
DL:  I would recommend finding a look that fits her style. I also tend to recommend more classic or timeless looks. It’s best for the photography to keep it classy and staying away from being too trendy.








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